tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.comments2011-02-23T11:56:26.522-06:00Road to SalaamLaylahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17296884920024848277noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-15486291154810324692010-08-19T14:05:25.101-05:002010-08-19T14:05:25.101-05:00Salaams and thnx Jana! I love ur blog aswell, it i...Salaams and thnx Jana! I love ur blog aswell, it is one of my favs! Hope u stop by often! :))Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17296884920024848277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-41652248312789169362010-08-19T14:04:15.233-05:002010-08-19T14:04:15.233-05:00Thanks for ur comment Mobeen! I agree it is not go...Thanks for ur comment Mobeen! I agree it is not good to be too quick in judgeing someone and to give them the benefit of the doubt. It does get so frustrating sometimes when a friend is a repeat offender :) and then it gets to the point that u cant rely on them and feel unsure weather to trust them with plans. I guess its a matter of how people choose to deal with situations, and I feel that people who in general have a hard time saying no in their lives often come across as unreliable because they agree too and make plans just to make other people happy. <br />We all have our quirks and downfalls, Allah knows I have mine. So I guess it is mostly an observatin.<br /><br />Thnx again for stopping by!<br />Take care :)Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17296884920024848277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-77406885878663841682010-08-19T13:58:06.785-05:002010-08-19T13:58:06.785-05:00salaams girls, so sorry I am replying so late! Did...salaams girls, so sorry I am replying so late! Didnt have net in Kuwait. Thank u all for stopping by! Inshallah I should be back to blogging once ramadan is over! :)Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17296884920024848277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-33425072459738445752010-08-08T23:05:47.666-05:002010-08-08T23:05:47.666-05:00Salam =) So glad I found someone who feels the sam...Salam =) So glad I found someone who feels the same I do about travelling and airports (well most of them at least). But I have to say, security screenings annoy me especially when I have my laptop with me cos I have to keep removing it from the bag, and when I have a heavy hand luggage with me which I have to carry and place on the conveyor belt =S <br /><br />Hope you have are having an awesome trip! I really enjoy the way you write and hope to read more from you soon inshaAllah.Shahirah Elaizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08332951368178817982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-50304123937314512382010-07-23T05:21:34.167-05:002010-07-23T05:21:34.167-05:00It can be classified into two different categories...It can be classified into two different categories , first one is the one you mentioned here, when a person assert something and somewhere inside she knows that she wouldn't do that, but in order to get others applause , concern and fake fame, she did that. <br /><br />Secondly if someone wants to do something well for other, if someone has trust on herself & on her abilities and she wants to take responsibility of easing your difficulty then it is quite justifiable, whatever the result will be. <br /><br />I would say one should not assess others reliability on the basis of her claim or promise; these are efforts, struggle and commitment till the last point which counts.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04969074588347695201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-78569304143939280772010-07-16T11:38:23.776-05:002010-07-16T11:38:23.776-05:00nice post. i understand the feeling constructive! ...nice post. i understand the feeling constructive! we should give ourselves the same self-care and attention!Fatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01388435074033840210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-89937140825597917792010-07-14T15:07:44.681-05:002010-07-14T15:07:44.681-05:00Welcome to the blogosphere :)
Love your profile p...Welcome to the blogosphere :)<br /><br />Love your profile pic!Janahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07257469296967916877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-68453212455935440202010-07-12T16:08:04.766-05:002010-07-12T16:08:04.766-05:00YOU ARE ONE LUCKY GIRL.
It's like one of my d...YOU ARE ONE LUCKY GIRL.<br /><br />It's like one of my dreams to go there someday. Have fun!Mysteryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07414281444881185863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-43012537973857636262010-07-11T06:23:38.531-05:002010-07-11T06:23:38.531-05:00oh sorry dear.. i opened 2 blogs at same time..n t...oh sorry dear.. i opened 2 blogs at same time..n thought u were xenia..but all the same i m waiting for ur travel pics now!!CATGIRL !!https://www.blogger.com/profile/11122375749792000864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-20761995665105321442010-07-11T06:19:48.349-05:002010-07-11T06:19:48.349-05:00thank u for following xenia..lovve ur name soo muc...thank u for following xenia..lovve ur name soo much..what does it mean? and where r the travel pics??CATGIRL !!https://www.blogger.com/profile/11122375749792000864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-3821264419575309662010-07-09T18:39:59.562-05:002010-07-09T18:39:59.562-05:00Well, the last few years (5 years to be exact), it...Well, the last few years (5 years to be exact), it's just been back and forth from here at home to Prague via Frankfurt (really bad airport, though I know it's one of the busiest, but the layout, blah! hehe) and now, due to Lufthansa cancelling a flight, this last time (end of last month) mum and I came via Amsterdam. The latter is a smaller airport, but they had an annoying security check+interview right at the gate. We are thinking of going back to Lufthansa when I come back here for the winter holidays, even though that means one more small domestic flight. We'll see.<br /><br />Aww, thanks and insha'allah. Hoping it will occur in the next 1.5 years, if things go as planned, but of course, if it matches Allah's Plan. <br /><br />Once again, have a wonderful time and if you are able/as you said, looking forward to hearing what you have to share with us.<br /><br />Again, safe trip!aneebabahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16900186403337284142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-77321414646070444602010-07-09T12:07:23.297-05:002010-07-09T12:07:23.297-05:00Salaam and welcome CatGirl :))
It can be frustra...Salaam and welcome CatGirl :)) <br /><br />It can be frustrating I know, but those situations are great oppurtunities for Dawah to our fellow sisters and it opens the lines of communication, inshallah :)) <br /><br />I will definatly check out ur blog! I love finding interesting new blogs to read!<br /><br /><br />Take care Sis :))Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17296884920024848277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-13825475507800135212010-07-09T12:04:15.615-05:002010-07-09T12:04:15.615-05:00Thanks Brother :))
I guess you have had a bit to...Thanks Brother :)) <br /><br />I guess you have had a bit too much travel in a short period of time, sounds like u r a bit burned out :)) I can see why it doesnt excite you as much :)) And ya u r right it is different when it is for a vacation! <br /><br />Inshallah soon you will be going on that honeymoon! May Allah bless you with a wonderful wife!!!<br /><br />:))Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17296884920024848277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-86340912890013291592010-07-09T02:13:29.820-05:002010-07-09T02:13:29.820-05:00Hey deary. I am a female MBA from Karachi, Pakista...Hey deary. I am a female MBA from Karachi, Pakistan. I totally SUPPORT u aginst the pakistani women u talked about. they give me a hard time as well though i don't wear hijab properly,but my dressing is conservative. I do write on issues related to religion and need more enlightenment from people like you. Love ur blog outlook and ur DEEP thoughts.. Best of Luck for ur blogging. I hope we can be mutual followers- if u like my blog?? don't forget to leave a comment please!<br /><br />http://relationships-catgirl.blogspot.com/CATGIRL !!https://www.blogger.com/profile/11122375749792000864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-39100262105465523982010-07-08T16:11:53.069-05:002010-07-08T16:11:53.069-05:00As salaamu alaikum Sis! Wow, sounds like fun. Thou...As salaamu alaikum Sis! Wow, sounds like fun. Though I can't say I share your view on airports - though I do like to see what differet airports look like, but since the last few years the traveling has just been to and from the same places - and for education, not vacation, it's hard to feel as you do at this point in my recent life. Insha'allah, when I get a chance at a vacation (honeymoon? insha'allah, insha'allah! hehehehe *blush*).<br /><br />Anyways, enjoy and it's great to hear that the in-laws are so wonderuful, that's the 2nd story that I've heard where there is a great relationship between the husband's parents and daughter-in-law. <br /><br />Wishing you a safe trip - have a great time! <br /><br /><br />PS It's 100 F here in Portland today - staying home for sure!aneebabahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16900186403337284142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-34673059354782526892010-07-08T13:56:21.077-05:002010-07-08T13:56:21.077-05:00Thank you Brother Muslim for you thoughts its grea...Thank you Brother Muslim for you thoughts its great to know what our brothers are thinking aswell. Plus I find it strengthens my resolve when my fellow Muslims encourage eachother to do good :))<br /><br />Your observation on the different ways and reasons women wear the hijab is so true! I have also encountered women wearing it for the wrong reasons, or acting not in accordance with the whole meaning of hijab. But ofcourse as you said, it is a step in the right direction, it is not a promise of perfection. It is like if a Muslim is not praying regularly, and then starts to, he is one step closer, but it doesnt mean everything else is perfect.<br /><br />I think the point is to keep taking steps in the right direction, and even if we are falling short in some things,not to neglect others. And to always strive to be better. May Allah help us and guide us all ! :)<br /><br />SalaamsLaylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17296884920024848277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-91987682297681565502010-07-08T13:43:23.700-05:002010-07-08T13:43:23.700-05:00Hello and welcome MadameLefty,
I'm so happy y...Hello and welcome MadameLefty,<br /><br />I'm so happy you did decide to stop by and comment! <br /><br />I loved your story, it was so comforting and made me so happy to know that there are open-minded ladies like yourself out there that will not automatically label a hijab wearing woman terrorist or oppressed and could see that actually she is a woman trying to do the right thing as commanded by her creator and out of modesty. I wish women in general could be more supportive of each other in that way, no matter what religion, race, or nationality they are. It’s so easy to miss-judge one another and hate based upon differences but I think getting to know each other and learning from one another would make us happier. In the end we are all sisters in humanity with all that entails. <br /><br />It brought such a warm smile to my face when you said- <br /><br />“as a fellow girl trying to do the right thing within the confines of her own particular religion, I had to respect that one young lady. She did it with class and style.”<br /><br />You were able to see to the core of the matter; that she was happy to be pleasing her creator and to be following her religion.<br /><br />I believe that religious women, of the three monotheistic faiths in particular have a lot in common as regards to our values and outlooks. And if we could just open up the lines communication, there is so much we could learn from each other, and even with the differences we could still be a great support to one another !<br /><br />Thank you again for stopping by, do come back often!<br /><br />Take care, :)Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17296884920024848277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-87202715295960769862010-07-08T10:36:23.312-05:002010-07-08T10:36:23.312-05:00As salaamu alaikum - sorry to crash the sisterly-l...As salaamu alaikum - sorry to crash the sisterly-love here :-P<br /><br />Briefly, I also like it when get-togethers are segregated - the only Muslim sisters I know that are not related by blood - whenever I go to their place (when it's a larger crowd) we are separated, as we were this past July 4th. I think this makes the sisters more comfortable as you said. Of course, we had to 'cross-over' as the sisters were in the area of the kitchen - where the food was being served, but of course, it's all good in that regard.<br /><br />Good for you Sr. Layla!! This was an interesting insight as to how other Muslim women reacted to the situation. Indeed, as Sr. Shahirah said, it's harder to explain to fellow Muslims about hijab or even other similar issues. <br /><br />I will say that no one is my extended family here in the US wear hijab, though I do have some cousins in India who do. While as a guy, I certianly wouldn't force a sister or wife to wera hijab - I do certainly think you ladies look beautiful in them and I do think it is the right thing to do. Yet, there is the issue of why the sister is wearing it, as I I do see some (in England for example) who do wear covering clothes, yet I see them with boyfriends or the hijab actually draws attention - as there is some shiny decoration on the head - doesn't that defeat the purpose. Also, I've heard from my Malaysian brothers where I study, that the Malay girls only where it as a tradition, not due to Islam - which is a bit confusing if you ask me. So, Sr. Shahirah, awesome! May Allah (swt) make it easy for you.<br /><br />In the end, only Allah (swt) Knows why a person is wearing hijab. Of course, because a woman wears it, this is not saying she is the perfect Muslim, but I think putting it on is a big first step and it's only natural, as with other aspects of one's Islam, to struggle with it and that with Allah's (swt) Grace, to eventually overcome any weakness and make one's Imaan stronger. <br /><br />Anyways, just my thoughts as a bro. :-)aneebabahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16900186403337284142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-19120083949744013232010-07-07T23:30:13.854-05:002010-07-07T23:30:13.854-05:00I found this blog through one of my favorites, Sym...I found this blog through one of my favorites, Symphonic Discord. I hope you don't mind me tumbling along here. <br /><br />I found this entry fascinating, because a lot of what you said resonated with me. (I'm a nonMuslim, practicing Catholic to be exact.)<br /><br />"I calmly explained my view that you can not pick and choose in Islam as to what you would like to practice and how. And also only when it is convenient for you."<br /><br />I find the above and what you wrote afterwards to be a universal truth in regards to religion. I've seen it in Catholicism and you're experiencing it with Islam. There are certain hot button issues in the Catholic faith that have us girls having similar discussions regarding certain "outdated" tenants of our faith.<br /><br />As a Westerner and NonMuslim, I do have a story to share. I was at the park a few weeks back and it was very hot and humid. I live in Houston, so the weather is miserable here. Well, a Muslim family came to play soccer and I only know this, because I noticed the teen/college girl who was wearing the full hijab. (I am even wording that correctly?)<br /><br />She stands out in my memory, because she had a color outfit of purple, creams, and lilac, which went well together. She was trotting around kicking that ball having the time of her life.<br /><br />Other people would have looked at her and maybe had a conversation similar to the one you did. I saw her and applauded her mentally. I don't know how she did it. If there was ever a time to wear shorts it was that day, but you wouldn't have known that she was hot. She didn't have the "oppressed" outlook, a label we (Americans in general) often stick too easily on things.<br /><br />Could I have done what she did? Honestly, no. However, as a fellow girl trying to do the right thing within the confines of her own particular religion, I had to respect that one young lady. She did it with class and style.<br /><br />(P.S. If anything I wrote seems amiss or ignorant, I apologize. I was a bit hesitant to post this story on a stranger's blog, but it seemed appropriate to share.)Lizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08763211385606299365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-61392416428835563142010-07-07T13:21:46.780-05:002010-07-07T13:21:46.780-05:00Salaam Sisters and welcome :))
I'm so happy t...Salaam Sisters and welcome :))<br /><br />I'm so happy that you guys found my little space in the blogoshpere :) <br /><br />Sr. Shahira first off Mabrook on starting to wear hijab :)) May Allah make it easy on you sis!<br />I agree with u that it is absolutly fine for all of us to be at different stages of our covering. It is a trial for us all and im sure all of us ladies have our ups and downs! And as u said us having a hard time doesnt mean we should try to change Islam. And I completely agree that if a lady just says straight that she isnt comfortable wearing it, then no one should bother her further, it is between her and Allah. It is worse to start justifying it because other sisters around could be influenced. <br /><br />And Salaams Sister MP :)) Thanks for the nice words :)) Inshallah in time ur husbands family will see the truth and beauty of hijab thru your consistency and patience and maybe start wearing it and inshallah you can get the reward :)) <br /><br />I'm going straight away to check out both of your blogs! I love finding new blogs of sisters, as a way to interact with my dear sisters in Islam!<br /><br />Take care, xLaylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17296884920024848277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-24378467597710736452010-07-07T12:28:51.315-05:002010-07-07T12:28:51.315-05:00Salaam Sis!
First of all I love your blog mash'...Salaam Sis!<br />First of all I love your blog mash'Allah!<br />This post really hits home, because I have had many members of my husband's family approach me with the same ideas. I also wear full proper hijab insh'Allah the way Allah swt commanded us to, and I have had more than one person tell me that didn't I know that hijab is not mandatory?? (ummm WHAT???) and Islam is all in your intentions, that we shouldn't make it hard on ourselves.<br />You handled the situation brilliantly, and I will definitely use that example next time someone questions me (about slowly peeling away the "hard" things about Islam until there is nothing left).<br />Keep up the good work insh'Allah! Please follow my blog too insh'Allah. www.veiledcouture.blogspot.com and check out this website of beautiful handmade jewelry www.lovenyla.com.<br />Allah Ma'akThe Mujahada in Pradahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12484337104165622141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-88435387229090696812010-07-07T06:03:47.146-05:002010-07-07T06:03:47.146-05:00Salam! Just found your blog =)
You know, explain...Salam! Just found your blog =) <br /><br />You know, explaining the hijab to non Muslims is tough but it is even tougher when it comes to Muslims. I just started wearing the hijab myself and I vary from style to style everyday but I try to cover up as much as I can and I take it one day at a time.<br /><br />Sometimes I think people come up with their own interpretations of Islam to make themselves feel better about the things that they do. Instead of saying that we just make religion easy on ourselves I think they should say that they are more comfortable not wearing proper hijab or not wearing hijab at all. It's as simple as that. Why twist things around and say that fiqh is man made etc? <br /><br />Furthermore if you are happy covering yourself up the way you do, they have no reason to impose their beliefs on you.Shahirah Elaizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08332951368178817982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-19587413218387597592010-07-07T00:24:08.170-05:002010-07-07T00:24:08.170-05:00Waleikum Salaam Br. MF,
Thanks for stopping by :...Waleikum Salaam Br. MF, <br /><br />Thanks for stopping by :) And jazakallah khair for your kind words and wishes! <br /><br />Sounds like you have travelled aroung quite a bit aswell, mashallah! That must make for interesting stories and experiences. I will definatly be stopping by your blog :)<br /><br />Good luck with your studies, and take care!<br /><br />Masalaam :))Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17296884920024848277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-27224055469207310382010-07-07T00:01:27.177-05:002010-07-07T00:01:27.177-05:00As salaamu alaikum dear Sister - Just saw your com...As salaamu alaikum dear Sister - Just saw your comment on Sr. Jannah's blog (I'm 'WestCoastbaba') and just clicked your name, so thought I would stop by. :-) <br /><br />Ma'sha'allah, wonderful to hear about another convert! <br /><br />Wow, very cool, Bulgaria! I was born in the States, family is from India and I'm currently going to school in Europe! I'll definielty start following your blog :-)<br /><br />Best wishes to you and Mr. Great Guy :-) I'm sure you'll be Blessed with little ones when the time is right insha'allah. <br /><br />Please stop by my blog when you have time - I'm not blogging as much as when I started last year, but will try to share a few things here and there. <br /><br />Take care.<br /><br />Ma'salaam / Allah Hafiz.<br /><br />Br. MFaneebabahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16900186403337284142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4508796154410072370.post-70340484948407939622010-07-06T13:06:54.154-05:002010-07-06T13:06:54.154-05:00Salaam Sis, ya I totally agree, alot of the time e...Salaam Sis, ya I totally agree, alot of the time especially where Hijab is concerned, I also find it harder to talk to other Muslimahs that have a different view about it. I used to get defensive, especially if I find myself the only hijabi in a gathering, but alhamdulillah have gotten better at just calmly explaining my views. :))Laylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17296884920024848277noreply@blogger.com